This may seem like a strange topic of conversation, but I'm curious: what kind of argue-er are you? When you're angry, do you just blow up, or do you think rationally? When you disagree, do you hold forth opinion, evidence, or both?
I'm the type who can't stand to be wrong, especially when I argue. I use every ounce of logic I possess, do research on what I'm trying to prove, and keep calm and rational, even if I'm angry. I rarely raise my voice, and almost never call names, and I never threaten.

Why? Because to me, it seems a weakness to have to resort to such tactics to get a point across. If the person won't listen to you and you have to threaten or name-call to get them to pay attention, then you are probably wrong, and your point just isn't good enough on its own to merit their attention. I also hate to be angry, because I hate friction in friendships. I have people that I've been friends with for three and four years and still have yet to have a fight with. Disagreements, yes, but fights, no.

So what kind are you? Do you thrive on that friction, or are you a peacekeeper?


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